Monday, November 3, 2008

Update Continued

A couple weekends ago we attended a How to Host a Murder party, thanks to the careful planning of our good friend Spiffany! (She's on the left in the black formal.)
The theme was an archeological dig. So, I was an archeologist, Stephen was some army guy, tiffany was the daughter of a really wealthy guy who discovered the dig, Nora and Jennette (on the other side of me) are world travelers. Adam (with the top hat) was an actor, and Mark was some cowboy type person, I think.
We visited the CalPoly Pomona Pumpkin patch with Brooklyn's cousins Caden and Caleb.

Brooklyn got a few battle wounds from an early morning wagon ride that ended with a sprint to the finish line (the grandparents house) by the three kids.

We've also visited my parents a couple of times. As you can see, Brooklyn gets no shortage of love and attention from them.

We've also made some new friends. Brooklyn says Rylie is her "best friend." The two of them have gone shopping with me and Lori a couple of times, and they always seem to find the most hideous princess-themed item that they "really want." Good thing Christmas is around the corner, my favorite comeback is, "You'll have to ask Santa for that," and then of course I hope that Brooklyn forgets about it in a couple of months, because basically Santa's already decided what he's getting for her, and it's not a light-up "We love to sparkle" hoodie!




More Updates

We've been racing a pretty cool pine-wood derby car. No rewards, but all smiles from the little kids. Stephen was the creator and designer of this mock Lightning McQueen....Brushing up on some Guitar Hero skills.

...or pretending to keep up with the big people

...Going to B.J.'s with our friends the Rodneys and the Nelsons









Update...Finally!

It's been a while since we've posted, so here are a few snapshots of our activities this past month!
Keeping cool at the kiddy pool during the hot days of a heat wave. (Jonathan, Brooklyn, Gabe)
Creating body artwork out of our potty-training reward stickers. Yes, Brooklyn has officially received a diploma from Desirae's School of Potty Competency, with only a few relapses here and there. Night times we're pretty good, but not 100% yet.

And of course, modeling for the next "Toddler Hair Styles that Kick Booty" spread of Parents magazine.

More to follow!



Thursday, October 30, 2008

YES on Prop 8

I don't know if most of you are aware of Prop 8 here in California.  Desirae and I have been volunteering quite a bit of time to help promote the passage of this proposition.  It will amend the California State Constitution to state that marriage is only between a man and a woman.  I've had quite a few discussions with people at work and even on the street.  On the street because I've stood on street corners holding signs in favor of prop 8.  (Needless to say I've been told that I'm # 1 quite a few times.)  It's amazing how much hatred and bitterness those who oppose this proposition have.  I've come to realize that those who oppose this proposition actually believe that gay people are born that way.  What a lie of the devil.  People can choose to behave and become whoever they wish to be.  What worries me the most is that if Prop 8 doesn't pass, gay marriage will be taught in schools.  Suddenly home schooling doesn't seem such a crazy idea.  Anyhow,  I thought that this was an enlightening video:

 

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Not without My...

favorite cds and...

personalized tote bag! Can you guess which essentials Brooklyn never leaves home without? This week it would be the Primary Children's Songbook CD's and either her "Kids Club Bag" (made by her grandma for the days when I used to go to the gym in Louisiana) or her mini-backpack (not pictured) with pink hearts on it. She really loves all the songs on CD #5 which are mostly action songs and seasonal songs. We routinely begin listening to song #6 on the CD, "Give said the Little Stream". Other favorites: "In the Leafy Treetops" and "Oh What do you do in the Summertime?"

Much to my delight, Brooklyn has become quite independent in her free time. She will select some toys and bring them out for her enjoyment. Usually it's dolls or books, or sometimes just her blankie and her thumb when she's tired in the mornings. Today it was play-dough, that was different. I'm always amazed when I look down to the livingroom from the loft bedroom above her and what she what activity is quietly occupying her. This (pictured below) was what I found one day this week. She had brought out a book I got a few months ago, but we haven't looked at in a while. It's got magnetic facial features for different animals, and it was pretty hillarious to see the combinations that looked "right" to her.
Hey, at least the color of the "mouth" is matching the tone of the rest of the face!
Imagine trying to blow bubbles or eat with those "lips."
Don't you think every camel should have buck teeth and a third eye for a nose?

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Mixed Emotions about Montessori

I have been invited to participate in a co-op preschool group with three other ladies. I am totally jazzed about more actively educating my darling little 2 1/2 year old. But, I have to say, I'm a little hesitant about the method of choice. I've heard a little about the Montessori method, but I obviously need to read up a little bit more. The idea is that each child is to be provided with an environment for many learning opportunities, of which they will explore and learn from individually or one-on-one with an adult. My main concern is: how will one adult effectively teach a GROUP of 4 toddlers one-on-one without some serious chaos? The way the "classroom" would be set up is with four stations or areas of learning: sensorial, language, mathematics, and everyday living. There are manipulatives at each station that are really cool and are supposed to teach a concept. The only thing I'm struggling with is that there will be four 2 1/2 - 3 year olds in the same room, wanting to do what ever someone else is doing that looks fun and then they will fight over the object. The other thing that might happen is that they will methodically make a huge mess by taking things out of the bins, piece by piece, then moving on to the next "bag of goodies" at another station, causing the stressed and frustrated leader with a huge mess to clean up in the end. Because we will rotate teaching the class, there will probably be only one teacher at a time. One of the other parents will have to volunteer watching the teacher's child because everyone else (except me) has a younger child at home as well. So how do we do one-on-one with so many different things going on at once, and so much explaining to do with each activity?
I think my doubts and fears are due to my experience with traditional teaching methods. Usually the most efficient and effective method is the straight-forward direct instruction. Model, demonstration, everyone try it all together. Yes, there are times when you do lab experiments or other fun things that are self-directed. Don't get me wrong, I was all about games and fun stuff when I taught in a classroom. I did utilize several different approaches to incorporate the different learning styles of the students. But I know when you have too many different things going on at once, you lose a lot of control and only the most disciplined kids are still learning and working, while the others are off seeing what they can get away with while the teacher is distracted helping other people. Basically, I think a group of preschool age kids lack the self-discipline for self-directed learning in a group setting. I hope I am proven wrong. I love the learning activities presented in this method, but I think they would best be carried out one-on-one, and therefore it would make more sense to do it at home with your child, not in a group.
I was a graduate of Joyschool, and I have fond memories from my days of Joyschool-hood. I looked online and the method and program is still accessible and actively used by some people. However, the cost of purchasing all the materials and the online membership seems like a little much. I think I will call my former Joyschool teacher, who just finished like her 20th year teaching joyschool (literally). I'll ask if she still has any lesson plans! I really am curious - have any of you taught using the Montessori method or attended a preschool that used it? Have any of you attended or taught joyschool?

I'd Hate to Imagine...

If guys had the opportunity to be pregnant!

This is so mean, but it really bothers me when Stephen (not pregnant) complains to me (31 weeks pregnant) about our uncomfortable mattress. Also, I was sweeping and mopping out kitchen floor tonight, and from the upstairs room, he is complaining about the fumes of the PineSol I was using. Really, it's mean I know. But if I'm on my hands and knees inhaling the stuff, and he's upstairs relaxing on the lounge chair reading a book, WHY is he complaining? Just a thought. Really, I love my husband and he is SO wonderful. I just get a chuckle sometimes out of him.